West Bridgford, Nottingham Never been
Nervous is the normal way to arrive.
Almost everyone here was anxious the first time. This page is the whole thing written down, with the arrival, membership and tour explained below.
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Your first night, start to finish.
From finding the door to settling in at the bar.
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Find the entrance
There is a pay and display car park opposite the club. The entrance is at the rear of 3-5 Radcliffe Road, at the bottom of the alley.
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Meet the team
Staff greet you at the door. Bring photo ID and your event ticket, and ask about anything you are unsure of.
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Apply for membership
Applications are made in person. Standard membership is £40 for a rolling year, the same price for couples and singles. You read and agree the house rules.
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Take the tour
Staff show you the bar, the private rooms and any equipment. There is time to ask questions and find your bearings.
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Settle in at the bar
Start with a drink and a conversation. The licensed members bar serves non-alcoholic drinks and coffees too.
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Take the evening at your pace
Nothing about the visit commits you to taking part. Consent applies everywhere in the club, and you can leave whenever you choose.
Sunday Sinners is a relaxed social. Sundays are recommended for new membership applications.
The honest bit
The six things people actually worry about.
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I will be the only one who does not know what they are doing.
Newcomer workshops have run here since 2018. You can meet other couples and single women who are taking their first steps too.
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Somebody will expect something from me.
Nobody will. Consent is written into membership, explained on your tour, and enforced by removal. Sitting at the bar all night is a completely normal evening here.
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Someone I know will see me going in.
The entrance is down an alley at the rear, not on Radcliffe Road. Phones and cameras are not allowed upstairs. Nothing is ever posted to your home address.
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I will not know what to wear.
Smart. Shirts rather than t-shirts on Friday and Saturday, no trainers or football shirts. Sundays are relaxed. If in doubt, message and ask before you come.
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What if we get there and change our minds.
You can leave whenever you choose. If you would like to talk before travelling, message the club on WhatsApp.
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What if my partner is keener than I am.
A Newbie Couples workshop is an informal evening of conversation, with the option to look round the club afterwards. You can decide together whether a club night feels right.
From people who did it
First visits, in their words.
Very good adult club. Staff are incrediblely friendly and couldn't be more helpful. Gordon on the front door was an absolute gentleman and was a great person to talk to throughout the night. You will need to buy tickets in advance though as specific nights require you to register before the event. We went to team players and was a very good night as the hosts were really friendly and helped ease us in as it was the first time visiting this venue.
Came here for the first time last night and was amazed how elegant the place was. Done up beautifully and it’s like a luxurious hotel. Met the owner & she was so lovely and the staff were very friendly, chatting & made you feel welcome. Would recommend any one to go as me and my partner felt so chilled & relaxed there.
Lovely and friendly vibe to this members club. Amanda is very welcoming and arranges awesome events for those likeminded guests. Although guests soon become friends as the place is relaxed and inviting 👌
Fantastic club everyone staff member are so friendly and welcome you with open arms. Small club but amazing well worth paying a visit. Even better when the phone rings lol
Great, chilled, luxurious club with great live music, really friendly, welcoming staff, a relaxed and safe environment with a quality 5 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟 doorman Gordan 😉.
We had a lovely evening at the Strawberries and Cream event. It was my first visit and was made to feel very welcome. Can't wait to visit again xx
Start here
The next few Sundays.
Sunday Sinners is a relaxed social. Sundays are recommended for new membership applications.